Jos76’s Blog

Thoughts and musings on life in a gay marriage.

Not the most popular kids in school

Posted by jos76 on May 10, 2008

Family is so important.  Growing up and dealing with teenage angst can be near impossible without the help and support of friends and, most importantly, family.  Dac and I have been lucky.   I do think that it is important, though,  that we all understand that it is not always so easy for the young gay kid growing up in a difficult situation.  These statistics are from Lamda Legal (A National Civil Rights Organization) and GLSEN (Educators Network):                     

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  • Gay youth are 4.5 times more likely than non-gay peers to skip school because they feel unsafe.
  • 31% of gay students had missed at least an entire day of school in the past month because they felt unsafe based on their sexual orientation.
  • Nearly one-third of LGBT students drop out of high school to escape the violence, harassment, and isolation they face there – a dropout rate nearly three times the national average.
  • Gay youth are 4 times as likely than their non-gay counterparts to have attempted suicide.
  • 84% personally had been verbally harassed at school (that is, called names or threatened) because of their sexual orientation.
  • 39.1% had been physically harassed (by being shoved or pushed) and 17% had been assaulted.

As supported as Dac and I are now, we look back at our school days and unfortunately identify with many of these statistics.  I’m sure that any parents would not want this for their child.  This, however, does not stop many extreme-right socially conservative politicians (Huck, Mitt, Bush, …to name a few) from working toward a school system that excludes any positive recognition of gay people. 

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I’m sorry if you came hoping to get something a bit lighter this week, but I saw Bill O’Reilly on TV today saying we should not “teach kids about being gay in school,” and I had to use this opportunity to show how misinformed he (and FOX news) really are.

Jos76

 

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4 Responses to “Not the most popular kids in school”

  1. queerunity said

    thanks for calling out o’reilly who is a damn fool

    http://www.queersunited.blogspot.com

  2. Rick said

    Thanks for sharing that piece. Very interesting…I didn’t know Eric was on his show.

  3. Fox News??? Oh you mean Faux News… this side of the pond we use the European spelling… 😀

    Can I just add that as a bisexual man I totally relate to those statistics too.

  4. TRiG said

    Thanks for those stats. I’ll be using them in some of the discussions on the Christian Discussion Forums (a nasty place at times for a gay atheist, but I’ve made some friends there).

    TRiG.

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